tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4780979693195745238.post8021583489098632934..comments2024-03-23T13:05:19.116-04:00Comments on Going Green in Indy: How much should your child know?Robbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03915194141694632310noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4780979693195745238.post-20415478827942338412009-06-08T12:39:37.575-04:002009-06-08T12:39:37.575-04:00It's a tough one, for sure. Kids see their &qu...It's a tough one, for sure. Kids see their "stuff" (compared with their friends') as their identity sometimes, and when they can't do things their friends can, it hurts. But you're doing the right thing, I think. I do think it's OK to just tell kids, "We don't have the money right now." We tell our kids that all the time. That way, they learn that nothing is free and that we have to have money to treat ourselves to something special. When they ask why we have to go to work (a frequent topic of conversation around here), then we tell them it's to make money to do these things. They start to put two and two together (at least, at my son's age, 7, he does) and eventually they do appreciate the value of money. I always think honesty is the best policy. It's probably better than making excuses or dancing around the issue. Just be up front with her and let her know times are tough. When you pull through all of this and she gets to start doing more things, perhaps, she might appreciate it in her own preschooler kind of way. Money is such a reality, I don't think it's ever too early to talk to kids about it. You just have to talk on their level, of course. Just my two cents (no pun intended), though! :o)Coriehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05274552926154174877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4780979693195745238.post-71815391826825198772009-06-05T10:28:23.108-04:002009-06-05T10:28:23.108-04:00We go through the same thing from time to time. I...We go through the same thing from time to time. I get it more from my younger son than my older. We don't do video games. We don't watch much TV. We buy thrift store clothes. We don't have all the Star Wars toys. Honestly, I mostly ignore it and point out all the things we do have. I think it depends on the kid but hopefully they eventually realize what great things their family does do.Green Beanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03133847111288382381noreply@blogger.com